When I lived
in India, I got hit by a motorcycle. I fractured my left tibial plateau (my
knee), suffered some pretty serious bruising to both legs and knocked my head.
This more or less relegated me to bed in the early days and left me with a face
showcasing evolving hues of green, purple and yellow. Wanting to spare my
parents a Skype experience that would cause them shock, I waited about two
weeks to share the crazy news. That didn't go over very well.
Krist hanging at Best Buns. |
(Unsurprisingly, I thought to take ZERO photos of them while they were here; besides the fact that I'm terrible at remembering I own a camera, I was of course in a foggy state of mind.)
Meanwhile, we needed a name. Everyone would ask for his name, then appear surprised when we told them we were still working on that. Folks! We thought we had four more months to mull this one over. We were informed that if we didn't pick one ASAP, it would be “much harder” to file for his social security number and birth certificate.
I hadn't
been in any hurry to pick a name until this point. Kraemer's family tends to
use names within the family; his nephew is a 5th. Mine, not so much,
and I leaned toward not doing so. I’d not accumulated a short list of names
over time, as some friends had, and I hadn't even made it to a book or website
of baby names, though they’d been suggested to me. In short, we were starting
from zero.
I thought I
wanted a name that captured one of our heritage, and probably a name with some
meaning (I love my name to pieces but I never have a good answer when people
ask me what it means.) So when my sister sent us a list of names meaning
“strong” and “brave,” and our five-year-old nephew said to his mom, “If he’s
Uncle Kwaemer's kid, he’s got to be tough!”, we had a direction to move in.
“Calder” is Gaelic (Kraemer has Irish heritage) and means “rocky river / rough
waters / stony stream,” and there are several rivers bearing this name in the
UK. Besides the obvious reasons why this is appropriate, Kraemer loves the
water, particularly rivers, and would live in one if he could. I know someday
he’ll take his son to see his namesake.
There’s
also a famous artist with the name Calder we’d admittedly overlooked until our
good family friends the Darlings asked whether this was where we’d found the
name, and we then realized we’d loved his exhibit in the National Gallery when
we’d seen it months back. Alexander Calder is the originator of the mobile.
Again, appropriate, no? We’ll need a neat one for his crib!
Lincoln,
well, we just liked it, and as others have pointed out, it pays homage to our
home here in DC. I also later figured out that he was born on the anniversary
of the Battle of Gettysburg.
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